i can have some pretty significant moments of being judgmental (like how i cleaned that up a bit?), but i’m working on it. and i think i’ve figured out a way to help the process. if i watch enough episodes of ‘house hunters’, i can get out all the judgement i have in me. i mean, really? picking the house $87,000 over your “very strict” budget?! or the house that’s 45 mins from work when a shorter commute was at the top of your wishlist?! or you’re planning on living in podunk, germany during winter months only but need the four extra rooms for all of your states-side “guests”…c’mon!
see? that was straight up like exercising a demon. now when i step outside and see someone being dumb or someone says something i feel is worthy of a punch in the face, i will have the space to breathe it out and temporarily store the residual judgment…until the next episode of ‘house hunters’, when i can judge, criticize and critique my ass off. ohmygod, i just got why J can scream at the tv during a Knicks game but have nothing to say when i’m baiting him into an argument i know i’ll win. damn. the guys have had it all along.
i’m improving me. namaste.